The personality is an expression of ones’ spirit and soul, showing in some as attractiveness and some others “need to keep one’s distance.”
All other characteristics of general demeanour, as expressed in the person’s behaviour, the way of speaking or what in some people is known and accepted as the unexplainable mystique called charisma.
Needless to say, the attractiveness of all such charisma must be dependent on a complementing, or exceptionally pleasing, inner personality – or the SELF!
Our thoughts and intentions, which, understandably, must be clean, free of ill will or other questionable nature, conversant with what is ethical and beautiful and usually combined with a matching intelligence.
Nature creates appearances of beauty in nearly all expressions. We are aware of the beauty of flowers, of the sunset, of peaceful scenery, etc. With all of which are aware of the same emanations as the manifestations of our awareness of “personal charisma” or all other “pleasing personalities” with appeal and charm.
It is a natural expression when it is real (often with the absence of awareness of its possessor) and can never be copied or imitated, just like the difference of form and beauty in flowers for instance.
Some people lack such “natural presence,” quite often due to less desirable thinking habits, questionable intentions and all such “inner secrets” which do not qualify as “beautiful.”
If we all heed our thoughts, guide our thinking patterns, exchange love and “good will” for feelings like envy, jealousy, and hatred; add more active and constructive rather than destructive intentions to the outward expressions of our minds, and add the awareness that we are beautiful!
Will not emit its radiance to others enhance our real looks, our confidence, with our charisma? And, who knows, change our relations with others, life as a whole and maybe through the mark of such change make itself felt in the betterment of our relationships and “our inner and outer world.”
Written by Yolanda A. Eden